Soften your heart with respect to this situation, and all the people involved, including yourself. I can help you forgive yourself and others, or to compassionately see everyone's point of view. You needn't change your stance or behavior. It simply means approaching the situation with a loving heart, which empowers you and allows creative solutions to pour forth.
Working with Archangel Zadkiel: Zadkiel's name means "Righteousness of God," and he helps us release unforgiveness toward ourselves and others. Ask him to come into your dreams and act like a chimney sweep, clearing away any emotional toxins from your heart. He'll ensure that everyone's needs are met, and that emotional healings occur in miraculous ways.
*from Doreen Virtue's Archangel Oracle Cards www.angeltherapy.com*